If the shiny new fact is something you could’ve lived with or, hell, enjoyed-some women love watching their bi boyfriends get with other dudes-then the offense was unnecessary: he didn’t need to sneak around. Discuss the offense first, the new fact second. You need to separate the age-old offense (sneaking around potential betrayal) from the shiny new fact you’ve learned (your boyfriend may be bi at the very least he’s bi-curious and/or heteroflexible).
Let's say he came to you and said, “I fantasized about messing around with a guy-I just want to get my cock sucked-and I wanted to know if that was something you would allow me to do?” What would you have said to him? How would you have reacted Could you be with a bisexual guy? one day i was helping my friend write a paper for class, and he was typing at the computer while I was giving him a massage. It makes me feel like I am in control - that mans dick is in my mouth and he depends on me to get him to his orgasm. this is the story of the first blowjob i ever gave. But you need to into that convo with some clarity about what you want-besides him living up to the monogamous commitment he made you-and some clarity about how you feel about being with him if he's bi or bicurious or heteroflexible. Age when it happend: 18 Where it happened: bunkbed Langauge: English Sex: Female Rating: 8 Category: Straight. then pretty much everyone in a longterm relationship is guilty of first degree murder.Īll that said, BLOW, you’re going to have to have a conversation with your boyfriend. But if contemplating something makes us guilty of it. I remember he was a bit uncomfortable at first, but I told him. That said, BLOW, most people who join hookup sites intend to hookup and the rest have at least contemplated hooking up. It was in this discussion that we got into the topic of gay porn and having sex with men. A Fathers Love - by AlexM - A boy and his father meet for the first time and they both find more than they expected in the other. Some people just want the virtual strokes and ego boost that comes with being wanted by someone who doesn't have "wants me" in their job description. Not everyone who joins a hookup site intends to do any hooking up. If you do it right, youll be able to drain him for long periods of time. That doesn’t make cheating on you okay cheating is not okay-if, again, he cheated on you. The way you breath is important when sucking dick. It’s also possible that he wants something in addition to all the wonderful sex he’s having with you-it's possible that what he wants isn't just a blowjob, but a blowjob from a man. It’s possible you do have a wonderful sex life. (I'm stressing those "ifs" because some people join hookup sites to fantasize, not actualize.)
If he went through with this- if you two have a monogamous commitment (I'm assuming you do) and if he got his cock sucked by some dude (and the jury is still out on that)-then you were definitely betrayed. Before I go any further: I want to affirm your feelings.